The Power Of One

PATRICK J. WOOD, PUBLISHER

Author of new book Patinas of Life available in local bookstores.

Dear Reader,

In a world filled with words, there is one that stands out above all others—a word that is the most cherished, the most appealing, and the most significant to each of us. That word is our own name.

Whether your name is Mary, Anne, Steve, or Brian, there is an undeniable truth: hearing your name spoken by someone else is a powerful experience. It resonates in a way that no other word can, because it is tied to your identity, your existence, and your place in the world.

Names are unique, yet they are also common. They might be shared by thousands, but when it is your name, it feels singular, special, and deeply personal. It is a word that signifies who you are, and when others remember and use it, it signifies that you are seen, recognized, and valued.

That is why, when you meet someone new and they tell you their name, the best thing you can do is to remember it. And not just remember it—use it. The next time you see that person, whether it’s days, weeks, or even months later, addressing them by name is a small but profound gesture. It tells them that you cared enough to remember, that they left an impression on you, and that you appreciate who they are as an individual.

In a broader sense, remembering and using someone’s name is about more than just social etiquette. It’s about building connections, fostering relationships, and influencing others in a positive way. When we acknowledge someone by name, we are not just recognizing their presence; we are affirming their worth.

So, as we go through life, meeting new people and forming new connections, let’s remember the power of a name. It’s the starting point of understanding others.

And in a world where everyone wants to be seen and heard, sometimes all it takes is remembering one simple word—their name.